SINGAPORE: A pupil took to Reddit to ask for recommendation on the next drawback: his father is sad with him as a result of he’s shut associates with women as an alternative of fellows.
u/cheezychimpanzeee wrote on r/askSingapore on Wednesday (Mar 22) that his father lectured him after he frolicked together with his feminine associates, telling him that different folks will speak badly about him in the event that they see him hanging out with women as an alternative of fellows.
He added that he beforehand studied in an all-girls’ course at ITE, which is why all his associates are women.
“inform me that different folks will speak badly about me in the event that they see me hanging out with women as an alternative of fellows. I used to be beforehand from ite in an all women course so my associates had been all women.
“Despite the fact that I’m in poly now and I do speak to guys, however I really feel that I can click on with women higher as a lot of the guys that I speak to are both involved in gaming or soccer, which I’m not a fan of.
I’m really fairly pissed about it as it’s not the primary time he’s been saying like this! Idk if I’m the one at fault or is it a psychological drawback of mine🥲,” he added.
Different Reddit customers willingly gave the submit creator recommendation.
“There’s nothing improper with a man having a social circle consisting of primarily ladies. I don’t know how one can speak to your dad about this although,” one wrote.
“In all probability previous folks stereotypical mindset. Ladies with plenty of man associates, hang around largely with guys = tomboy. Guys with plenty of woman associates, hang around largely with women = agua,” one other chimed in.
A girl with the identical challenge, besides that she has extra male than feminine associates, mentioned the identical, “Truthfully, its simply previous folks mindset.”
“Clearly he has an issue which he must take care of, not you. Be your self. Take pleasure in your life. Don’t fear what he thinks,” one other Reddit consumer suggested.
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Faculty woman emotionally harm cos her associates don’t embrace her once they exit, asks, ‘Why am I rejected on a regular basis?’
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